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"[Coontz] approaches the subject of what we now insist up on calling 'family values' with what is, in the current atmosphere, a refreshing lack of partisan cant."—Jonathan Yardley, Washington Post Book World

"Stephanie Coontz has her finger on the pulse of contemporary families like no one else in America."—Paula England, 2015-15 President, American Sociological Association

presents fascinating facts and figures that explode the cherished myths about
self-sufficient, happy, moral families."—Newsday

rich, and loaded with anecdotal evidence, The Way We Never Were
effectively demolishes the normal, traditional nuclear family as neither normal
nor traditional, and not even nuclear."—Nation

"A wonderfully perceptive,
myth-debunking report.... An important contribution to the current debate on
family values."—Publishers Weekly

"Clear, incisive, and
distinguished by Coontz's personal conviction and by its vast range of cogent
examples, including capsule histories of women in the labor force and of black
families. Fascinating, persuasive, politically relevant."—Kirkus Reviews

strength is in the way she shows that families of every era have been blamed
for conditions beyond their control."—San Francisco Chronicle

"[Coontz] persuasively
dispels the myths and stereotypes of 'traditional' family values as the product
of the postwar era."—Library Journal

The Way We Never Were

American Families and the Nostalgia Trap

By (author) Stephanie Coontz

Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man's home has never been his castle, the ‘male breadwinner marriage' is the least traditional family in history, and rape and sexual assault were far higher in the 1970s than they are today. In The Way We Never Were, acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz provides a myth-shattering examination of two centuries of the American family, sweeping away misconceptions about the past that cloud current debates about domestic life. The 1950s do not present a workable model of how to conduct our personal lives today, Coontz argues, and neither does any other era from our cultural past. This revised edition includes a new introduction and epilogue, looking at what has and has not changed since the original publication in 1992, and exploring how the clash between growing gender equality and growing economic inequality is reshaping family life, marriage, and male-female relationships in our modern era. Now more relevant than ever, The Way We Never Were continues to be a potent corrective to dangerous nostalgia for an American tradition that never really existed.
Stephanie Coontz is a member of the faculty of Evergreen State College in Olympia, WA, where she is a historian and an expert on American culture.

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